Quotes for a wedding toast
A quote in a wedding toast should sound like you chose it for this couple, not like you found it five minutes ago. These are checked quotes about love and marriage, each with a line you can adapt.
The first line of Keats's long poem Endymion: beautiful things never lose their power to delight us, and their loveliness grows over time instead of fading.
Read the full explanation →The urn tells us that beauty and truth are the same thing, and that this is the only wisdom people need. Whether Keats himself believed it, or is letting the urn speak for itself, is still debated.
Read the full explanation →Family ties are stronger than any other bond, so relatives should stand by each other first.
Read the full explanation →Said, usually as a joke, when two people have the same idea at the same time. It flatters both of them.
Read the full explanation →Old age is not a decline to dread but the goal that youth was preparing for. Browning's speaker invites a listener to grow old with him because the later years complete the life.
Read the full explanation →The poet lists the ways she loves her husband: as deeply as her soul can reach, in everyday needs, freely, purely, with all her life, and, if God allows, even more after death.
Read the full explanation →Austen's narrator states a “universal truth” that is really a joke: it is the families of single women who want a rich bachelor, not the bachelor who wants a wife.
Read the full explanation →Shakespeare defines true love as constant: it does not change when circumstances change, and it does not fade with time or age.
Read the full explanation →Paul describes the kind of love that should hold a community together: patient, kind, humble and enduring. It was written to a quarreling church, not a couple.
Read the full explanation →Juliet asks why Romeo has to be a Montague, the son of her family's enemy. “Wherefore” means “why,” not “where.”
Read the full explanation →The poet decides the beloved is better than a summer's day, which is too short and changeable, and promises that the poem itself will keep their beauty alive forever.
Read the full explanation →Her beauty is like a clear, starry night, a perfect balance of dark and light, and it comes as much from a calm, good mind as from her face.
Read the full explanation →Burns, having wrecked a mouse's nest with his plough, tells her that the best plans of mice and men often go wrong, and that he is worse off than her because he worries about the past and the future.
Read the full explanation →Lysander comforts Hermia, whose father forbids their marriage, by saying true love has always faced obstacles. It is a promise that trouble does not mean love is false.
Read the full explanation →Everyone makes mistakes; forgiving them is what lifts us toward the divine. Pope wrote it to urge critics to be generous to struggling writers.
Read the full explanation →Life moves through opposite seasons, birth and death, weeping and laughing, and each has its proper time. The passage is both comforting and a reminder that we do not control the timing.
Read the full explanation →A promise of total loyalty: wherever you go, I go; your people will be my people, and your God my God.
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How to use a quote in a wedding toast
The safest place for a quote is near the end, just before you ask everyone to raise a glass. By then you have told your stories about the couple, and the quote gathers them into one line that people remember. Opening with a quote is riskier, because the room has not warmed up yet and a famous line can sound like a greeting card.
Keep it short. A toast usually runs two to four minutes, and a quote that takes more than fifteen seconds to say will feel like a reading rather than part of your speech. If the full passage is long, use the one sentence that carries it and say who wrote it in a few words, such as "Shakespeare put it this way."
Connect the quote to the couple straight away. The sentence after the quote matters more than the quote itself: say how it fits something you have seen them do. Then pause, lift your glass and give the toast. Avoid anything about divorce, exes or the "old ball and chain" type of joke quote, however funny it looked online.