Quotes to write in a sympathy card
When you do not know what to write in a sympathy card, a few borrowed words can help, as long as they are gentle and true. These are checked against their sources and come with a short message you can adapt.
Tennyson, grieving the sudden death of his closest friend, decides that the pain of losing someone is better than never having loved them. It was written about friendship and death, not a breakup.
Read the full explanation →Dickinson pictures hope as a small bird that lives in the soul, sings without stopping through every storm, and never asks for anything in return.
Read the full explanation →Paul tells a young church facing hardship to keep giving thanks whatever happens. The point is gratitude in every situation, not pretending bad things are good.
Read the full explanation →Donne, seriously ill and hearing a funeral bell, reflects that every person is part of humanity, so every death diminishes us all. The same passage ends with “for whom the bell tolls.”
Read the full explanation →At a holiday gathering, don't dwell on what the year has taken from you. Count what you still have, because everyone has many blessings and every life has some sorrow.
Read the full explanation →The best part of a good person's life is not their big achievements but the small, everyday kindnesses that nobody records and they themselves forget.
Read the full explanation →Life moves through opposite seasons, birth and death, weeping and laughing, and each has its proper time. The passage is both comforting and a reminder that we do not control the timing.
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How to use a quote in a sympathy card
Keep it short. A single line of poetry or scripture, followed by a sentence of your own such as "We are thinking of you," is enough. Grieving people do not need an essay.
Avoid lines that explain or minimize the loss, such as "everything happens for a reason." Choose words that sit with the person in their grief rather than trying to fix it.
If you knew the person who died, add a specific memory. A small story about them is often the part of a card that a family keeps.